The Mastery App is a tool for monitoring how we “feel” and encouraging daily relational discussions. Much research had been done on the topic of what is most important to men and women. For most women, feeling loved tops the list. For men, the most important is usually feeling respected or satiated. Using the Mastery App, a wife can seed from day to day just how loved she feels, keeping a record of when she feels loved and when she doesn’t. Her husband also monitors how he feels.

By comparing their feelings they can look for the bright spots, discussing what acts or behaviors prompted the good feeling, so that their spouse is aware and able to build on the things that work.

At the same time, those incidents that did not make their spouse feel loved or respected can be addressed. Awareness makes it easier to change in the future.